Don't force yourself onto her hands If she's bored. Or eating dinner - that's just stupid. While there's no perfect moment, the usual auspicious ones are when you're standing side by side, have your hands free, walking her home or at a movie /concert.
It's Cold
This only works when it's really cold and you're walking or sitting outdoors. it works better when she's not wearing gloves. Simply hold her hands (gently!) and say "It's really cold." in a sad voice. If she doesn't take away her hand in a few minutes, it's a win.
The Coded HandHold
If you hang out a lot with her, teach her,with a mischievous-kid tone some messages, somethingsecret and naughty.
Examples include something generic like : "That's so stupid.". You can even make it conversational by creating a code for ""I totally agree."
Communicate these coded messages by holding her hand in a certain way.
A flawlessly effortless way that isn't actually a technique but just plain common sense is hold her hand when she genuinely needs her. Hold her hand and lead her out of crowded room if you want to talk to her in private. If she's wearing heels, help her alight from a flight or vehicle, or across a water puddle.
You don't have to immediately let go of her hand when she's across.
If she's holding your hand firmly for security, you can simply lock your elbows - which is holding your hands at elbows-level. If she's comfortable with it (and likes it), good. If not, well, later.
Grasping her hands firmly all the time communicates desperation.
It also looks bad if she pulls her hand away. Instead, just hold one finger - it's a test of how much she's into you. If she's feeling it too, she'll hold your hand too.
Guide Her Way
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